Creating your own bubble prevents Jadedness and Catty behavior….
Someone recently asked me, how do I keep from becoming jaded in this industry? How do I maintain my levels of respect and camaraderie with both the men and other escorts? And the answer is rather simple; I stay to myself! I avoid as much as possible running in escort cliques, and participating in petty bedroom gossip with clients. I just refuse to do it, and I've discussed this before.
It's funny, but I was talking to a fellow escort this afternoon, and she rambled off the names of a few local escorts that I'd never heard of. She was trying her best to make me know these girls, but I hadn't the slightest clue, because I just don't bother keeping up with other escorts and what they're doing.
And then recently I had an escort call for screening advice, and she talked like I was supposed to know who she was. I hated to burst her bubble, but I didn't have the slightest idea who she was. She kept saying, "Oh, You've heard of me". I assured her that I didn't, but she kept saying "Yes you do". Even after googling her name and seeing her pictures, I still didn't know who she was. But that's good that I don't because that means no ones gossiped about her.
It would have been great though if she were a little more professional over the phone, and had better phone etiquette, so because of her phone etiquette or lack there of, I was reluctant to talk to her.
I guess the message I'm trying to convey in this journal entry is that; I will only form an opinion about someone based on MY experience with them. So if I've never heard of or dealt with you, then I'll more than likely give you the benefit of the doubt.
Besides, not to sound arrogant or anything, but this is "The Erika show", and I'm the ONLY escort I should be keeping up with!
I'm only kidding yall......
Goodnight
It's funny, but I was talking to a fellow escort this afternoon, and she rambled off the names of a few local escorts that I'd never heard of. She was trying her best to make me know these girls, but I hadn't the slightest clue, because I just don't bother keeping up with other escorts and what they're doing.
And then recently I had an escort call for screening advice, and she talked like I was supposed to know who she was. I hated to burst her bubble, but I didn't have the slightest idea who she was. She kept saying, "Oh, You've heard of me". I assured her that I didn't, but she kept saying "Yes you do". Even after googling her name and seeing her pictures, I still didn't know who she was. But that's good that I don't because that means no ones gossiped about her.
It would have been great though if she were a little more professional over the phone, and had better phone etiquette, so because of her phone etiquette or lack there of, I was reluctant to talk to her.
I guess the message I'm trying to convey in this journal entry is that; I will only form an opinion about someone based on MY experience with them. So if I've never heard of or dealt with you, then I'll more than likely give you the benefit of the doubt.
Besides, not to sound arrogant or anything, but this is "The Erika show", and I'm the ONLY escort I should be keeping up with!
I'm only kidding yall......
Goodnight
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