Adoring my clients makes them Adore me =)

I’ve developed a HUGE interest in the male psyche every since I began to delve into the world of Escorting 5 years ago. Never in a million years did I think I would become as successful as I’ve become in this industry. I’m overweight, I have tiny budding dreadlocks, and I’m the quintessential unassuming female. I don’t have a low self-esteem, and never have, but I’m totally realistic about my beauty, or lack there of.

Am I cute…..YES; but beautiful…..NO.

I always wondered what it was about me that keep my clientele so loyal, and I think I know the answer. Fascination and Emotion!

My client’s interest in me has little to do with sex or looks. They are interested in my being, my spirit, my carefree nature. I have developed a strategy that has hypnotized my clients into submitting themselves to me both emotionally and physically, without me being ideally attractive.

As women, we have been taught that men react to looks first, which is true. But the key is the next level of the initial meet, which is Personality. Believe it or not, men are more emotionally attached to women with certain personality types, no matter how the woman looks. Once they get over the initial infatuation with looks, then they begin looking for qualities in her personality that connects with him emotionally.

For me, it’s my eccentric and eclectic nature. I am something that they are not accustomed to, or ever thought they would be.

Below are tips to getting a man emotionally attached.

(Tip 1) Travel! There’s something about a worldly woman that fascinates men. And I’m not just talking the Caribbean and Mexico. Visit Cambodia and see the ancient temples Angkor Wat. I try to make it a habit of visiting at least one country abroad every 2 years.

(Tip2) Intellect! And I’m not referring to a self professed intellect that most women seem to adopt. I’m talking about having an actual expertise and passion in something that a man is interested in. My expertise is the history, sex, and culture.

(Tip 3) Attitude! If you got it, LOOSE IT…Immediately! Nothing is more of a turn off emotionally than a woman with attitude. And I’m not referring to Joan Collins or drag queen type attitude. I mean Nagging and bitching attitude. If you’re the type that gets ruffled easily, learn to train your emotions not to react.

(Tip4) Friendliness! Nothing is more pleasant than a woman who smiles and is happy. And when you add sensual and attentive to the mix, you gain the power. The secret is finding an equal mix of attentiveness and High Self esteem. Men absolutely LOVE a friendly attentive woman who thinks highly of herself.

Last but not least

Openness! An open minded woman goes far in every avenue, especially in love and relationships. Never say never, always say maybe! I thought I’d never become attracted to women until I met my current girlfriend, who is also my secondary partner. A polyamorous relationship was something that I never dreamed I could love, but with an open heart and mind, I not only found a true love, I found 2.

THC

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