Escorts and References....
Wow, you won't believe the amount of working girls out there that refuse to give reference; and they do this as if they have some entitlement or ownership over the client. And with the economy being in the mess that it's in right now, girls are fighting over these men as if the men were a pork chop in a room of hungry fat chicks! It's so silly!
Although I've never had this issue with a girl, probably because I have my own special way of screening men, it's still a problem that's discussed on tons of escorting message boards. I recently heard of well known escorts being shady when it came to sharing clients and giving references; and when this happens, it hurts the client as much as it hurts us, because lets face it - if an escort won't refer you, then you can't partake in the wonderful benefits of experiencing other escorts.
Then you have the escorts wanting references and have absolutely NOTHING but the guys screen name on some message board. I mean - come on ladies, you got to do better than that. These men change screen names like I change my underwear and they definitely can't be screened by just a handle. Make sure that you get as much information about the guys as possible. I'm not going to go fishing for his information just to give you a reference. Whenever I contact ladies for references, I make sure to ad his Name, phone #, email address, age, and the approx last time he's seen you. Oh, and it would be helpful if you introduced yourself to me first. Part of the whole phenomenon with escort's not giving references probably has to do with the lack of phone etiquette that you put out. I've had ladies call with as much personality as dry oatmeal, but I guess this is no personality contest, and warming me up is no concern of hers.
But the lesson to be learned is; References are important to us all. They keep us safe from the crazies, cops, and robbers. And In the end though, if you want to be shady with giving references, or continue sending half-assed references requests to others, then be ready to take risks, because it's going to become increasingly hard to get references from escorts when you don't reciprocate properly. And the last thing you need in this industry is taking unnecessary risks.
Although I've never had this issue with a girl, probably because I have my own special way of screening men, it's still a problem that's discussed on tons of escorting message boards. I recently heard of well known escorts being shady when it came to sharing clients and giving references; and when this happens, it hurts the client as much as it hurts us, because lets face it - if an escort won't refer you, then you can't partake in the wonderful benefits of experiencing other escorts.
Then you have the escorts wanting references and have absolutely NOTHING but the guys screen name on some message board. I mean - come on ladies, you got to do better than that. These men change screen names like I change my underwear and they definitely can't be screened by just a handle. Make sure that you get as much information about the guys as possible. I'm not going to go fishing for his information just to give you a reference. Whenever I contact ladies for references, I make sure to ad his Name, phone #, email address, age, and the approx last time he's seen you. Oh, and it would be helpful if you introduced yourself to me first. Part of the whole phenomenon with escort's not giving references probably has to do with the lack of phone etiquette that you put out. I've had ladies call with as much personality as dry oatmeal, but I guess this is no personality contest, and warming me up is no concern of hers.
But the lesson to be learned is; References are important to us all. They keep us safe from the crazies, cops, and robbers. And In the end though, if you want to be shady with giving references, or continue sending half-assed references requests to others, then be ready to take risks, because it's going to become increasingly hard to get references from escorts when you don't reciprocate properly. And the last thing you need in this industry is taking unnecessary risks.
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