Escorts and clients falling in love...
The question was posted whether or not an escort and her client can have a real romantic relationship outside of the escorting game, and most of the people that chimed in said NO.
I hate that shit!
I’m tired of mother fuckers thinking that escorts and clients are incapable of being “normal” people together.
It’s as if you’re telling me that because I’m a prostitute and he was my “trick” that we can’t romantically date without having fucked up or greedy motives behind it. And it bothers me when others co-sign that shit.
And just to be clear, if you failed at this type of relationship in the past, then you or the other person probably went in with artificial and shallow expectations like (infatuation, sex and money) and your relationship was doom to fail when Ya’ll said hello.
Point that I’m trying to make is if I love someone, then I’m good to them....PERIOD! And the last thing I would ever want to do is hurt them emotionally or financially. And the client should feel the same way about me if we’re dating. It’s called reciprocity.
Majority of the men who fall short in this type of relationship were usually “Sugar Daddies” or tremendously jealous and insecure. And that’s not the type of relationship I’m talking about. I’m talking about having a stable full fledged relationship with a man who was a client, and is ok with you escorting. It can be done, and I’m a living witness to that!
A sugar baby arrangement would never work for me. I need someone who is available to me emotionally and physically 24/7, instead of occasionally buying me shoes, weed, food, purses, and paying my little ole gas and electric bill. That ain’t shit. I can do that myself.
I’m talking beyond finances and sex.
Example – If I were stranded on the side of the road in the middle of the night with a flat tire, my man should be the first person that I call for help, and he should jump right up with NO hesitation, and vice versa. But with a sugar daddy, chances are, he’s married, and he’ll be sleeping right next to his lovely wife and yo ass will remain stranded. So that’s why I’ll never make myself emotionally available to or dependent on married men. It’s usually a dead end road.
But for a client whose single, and we’re feeling each other, and he’s OK with me being an escort, and I’m Ok with him being a hobbyist, that my friend is a wonderful union.
But don't get me wrong, I totally understand that this is a different type of relationship, and the shit just doesn’t work for everyone. And that’s why it takes 2 strong mother Fuckers to make it work. Strong like Hercules!
And that concludes today’s sermon.
I’m Erika, and this was your daily Motivation.
I hate that shit!
I’m tired of mother fuckers thinking that escorts and clients are incapable of being “normal” people together.
It’s as if you’re telling me that because I’m a prostitute and he was my “trick” that we can’t romantically date without having fucked up or greedy motives behind it. And it bothers me when others co-sign that shit.
And just to be clear, if you failed at this type of relationship in the past, then you or the other person probably went in with artificial and shallow expectations like (infatuation, sex and money) and your relationship was doom to fail when Ya’ll said hello.
Point that I’m trying to make is if I love someone, then I’m good to them....PERIOD! And the last thing I would ever want to do is hurt them emotionally or financially. And the client should feel the same way about me if we’re dating. It’s called reciprocity.
Majority of the men who fall short in this type of relationship were usually “Sugar Daddies” or tremendously jealous and insecure. And that’s not the type of relationship I’m talking about. I’m talking about having a stable full fledged relationship with a man who was a client, and is ok with you escorting. It can be done, and I’m a living witness to that!
A sugar baby arrangement would never work for me. I need someone who is available to me emotionally and physically 24/7, instead of occasionally buying me shoes, weed, food, purses, and paying my little ole gas and electric bill. That ain’t shit. I can do that myself.
I’m talking beyond finances and sex.
Example – If I were stranded on the side of the road in the middle of the night with a flat tire, my man should be the first person that I call for help, and he should jump right up with NO hesitation, and vice versa. But with a sugar daddy, chances are, he’s married, and he’ll be sleeping right next to his lovely wife and yo ass will remain stranded. So that’s why I’ll never make myself emotionally available to or dependent on married men. It’s usually a dead end road.
But for a client whose single, and we’re feeling each other, and he’s OK with me being an escort, and I’m Ok with him being a hobbyist, that my friend is a wonderful union.
But don't get me wrong, I totally understand that this is a different type of relationship, and the shit just doesn’t work for everyone. And that’s why it takes 2 strong mother Fuckers to make it work. Strong like Hercules!
And that concludes today’s sermon.
I’m Erika, and this was your daily Motivation.
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