Bisexual, Gay, and Down-Low Men.

There is a stigma placed on a man if he admits that he’s bisexual. But there is an even GREATER stigma placed on a Black man, which is why we have the whole “Down Low” phenomenon. But the reality is this phenomenon isn’t anything new, and since it’s been exposed in books and on TV, it’s become sensationalized.

The whole down-low movement has been blamed for the AIDS and HIV epidemic in the African American Community, which is fucking ridiculous. Here we go with placing blame on a small sub-group of men instead of taking responsibility as a community for making fucked up decisions when it comes to sex and safety.

But this issue isn’t just limited to black men either; white men live this secret life as well.

Bisexual men are more common than we realize though. Most bisexual men typically fall in the category of “I just want the sex NOT a relationship”. This category is easier to maintain for bisexual men because they don’t have the emotional attachments to sex like women do, so gay sex can be done without anyone ever finding out or hearts getting broken.

But this is where shit gets risky. I find that the more sexually adventurous a man is, the more risks he’s willing to take, especially when he’s reached a sexual plateau where regular sex is no longer fulfilling, he then becomes a Cum Junkie. And a Cum Junkie is a man who is obsessed with ejaculating and will drive the streets and clubs all night looking for a release. Cum Junkies typically don’t like using condoms because they’re dick has become desensitized from the constant jacking off, fucking, or blow jobs.

After while, unprotected sex becomes an inevitable practice to a Cum Junkie, whether it’s BBBJ (Bareback blowjobs) or bareback sex which is called “Breeding” in the gay world. Breeding is the practice of bareback ass fucking to completion. It’s basically a “cream pie” in the ass.

Being in the Adult industry has opened my eyes to many sexual practices within the male species. I understand them better and they communicate with me freely which is an honor. But whenever a client tells me that he doesn’t like to use condoms - that tells me that I should make him wear two. LOL