Weighing the truth....
This particular entry my not be popular with my fellow BBW's and thick sisters. This particular entry may rub a few ladies the wrong way, but trust me on this. This is not a put down or "Sell-out" post because I too am a big girl, and proud of it. I'm looking at the bigger picture here, especially being a sex worker. No matter how much I try and make light of my weight, I STILL understand that BBW's are a niche market in this industry and not the mainstream desires of most men.
The truth of the matter is....If you want to make the big dollars in this industry, you got to be thin. It's not entirely our fault though because there is this standard of beauty that has been forced down our throats for centuries, which is: "Thin is in and Fat is Whack". Society equates femininity with body size, so the bigger woman, the less feminine she's considered. Now, am I saying that bigger women are less feminine or less attractive, HELL NO. But the truth of the matter is the ideal fantasy woman isn't 5'5 and 230 pounds. She's thin, petite, streamline, and model-like.
Now some of you may be thinking, "this girl doesn't know what she's talking about", but just look at the more popular and sought after escorts. They are all thin and model-like. When was the last time you saw a BBW charging $800/hours and getting it with no problems or questions asked? NEVER! Well I haven't seen any....
Men still have this predatory nature when it comes to women and size, and a big woman goes against the male’s idea of the submissive feminine species.
But in the end, most men are actually confused as to what looks good vs. what feels good.
And nothing says UN-sexy like a woman with the figure and body type of an 11 year old boy.
Just my opinion......
The truth of the matter is....If you want to make the big dollars in this industry, you got to be thin. It's not entirely our fault though because there is this standard of beauty that has been forced down our throats for centuries, which is: "Thin is in and Fat is Whack". Society equates femininity with body size, so the bigger woman, the less feminine she's considered. Now, am I saying that bigger women are less feminine or less attractive, HELL NO. But the truth of the matter is the ideal fantasy woman isn't 5'5 and 230 pounds. She's thin, petite, streamline, and model-like.
Now some of you may be thinking, "this girl doesn't know what she's talking about", but just look at the more popular and sought after escorts. They are all thin and model-like. When was the last time you saw a BBW charging $800/hours and getting it with no problems or questions asked? NEVER! Well I haven't seen any....
Men still have this predatory nature when it comes to women and size, and a big woman goes against the male’s idea of the submissive feminine species.
But in the end, most men are actually confused as to what looks good vs. what feels good.
And nothing says UN-sexy like a woman with the figure and body type of an 11 year old boy.
Just my opinion......
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